How to enable HDR in windows with a multi screen set up

I have 3 monitors, 1 HDR capable and 2 not.

If I enable HDR in the windows options, it works fine on the HDR capable one, but the other two are waaaaay over bright, faded and difficult to read.

Is there a way to only enable HDR on the HDR capable monitor.

pic of HDR and advanced colour settings menu

picture of HDR and advanced colour option

EDIT

system: Microsoft Windows 10 Enterprise

build: Version 10.0.16299 Build 16299